Do keep good financial records
In a divorce case, parties are typically required to complete a financial disclosure form listing all income, assets, debts, and expenses. Additionally, parties often must provide financial records spanning several years before the divorce. Maintaining organized financial documentation and producing it on time will help you reduce legal fees, enable you and your divorce attorney to better negotiate a divorce settlement, and, if necessary, be better prepared for divorce court or trial proceedings.
Do communicate clearly, concisely, and respectfully with your ex
Your written communication will be scrutinized in child custody cases. Important matters related to co-parenting, such as child exchanges, activities, and school events, need to be discussed and confirmed. Communicating clearly, concisely, and respectfully will help resolve custody disputes, avoid unnecessary arguments, and present yourself favorably to Family Court judges.
Do take care of yourself
Divorce and separation are stressful processes. Don’t make it harder by neglecting your physical, emotional, and mental health. Your well-being can be considered in any contested custody case. Make sure to prioritize self-care, therapy if needed, and maintaining a healthy routine.
Don’t sign anything without seeking legal counsel
Once signed, agreements are legally enforceable—whether they are fair or unfavorable. Always consult a family law attorney to understand your legal rights before signing any documents related to child custody, alimony, property division, or financial settlements.
Don’t move out of the family home without considering the consequences
Moving out can result in paying expenses for two households and may impact your standing in custody disputes. Speak with your attorney before making any major decisions about property or living arrangements.
Don’t engage in heated arguments with your ex
Confrontations can lead to your ex filing a Protection from Abuse (PFA) petition, which may result in serious consequences such as removal from your home, temporary custody being granted to your ex, or court-ordered child support and spousal support (alimony).
Author Patrick J. Boyer concentrates his practice on family law. He advocates in various areas including, but not limited to, divorce, property division, alimony, child custody and visitation, child support, and domestic violence. In addition, Patrick assists his clients with issues involving guardianship and third-party visitation. He is licensed in Delaware and Pennsylvania and works out of the firm’s Centreville, Delaware office.
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