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How are Retirement Assets Divided in Divorce?

July 23, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

In a divorce case, retirement assets are subject to equitable division based upon enumerated statutory factors. Equitable distribution does not always mean equal division. For example, certain factors require the Court to consider current incomes, future earning capacities, and other financial circumstances. Often, the lower-earning spouse receives a majority of the marital assets, including retirement accounts and pensions.

Marital assets comprise property acquired during the marriage, absent certain exceptions. The growth of a non-marital asset remains non-marital property. Often, marital property is commingled or mixed, meaning it has both marital and non-marital components. This non-marital component not only includes the date-of-marriage balance on the retirement account but also any passive gains that can be proven to have been generated from the pre-marital balance. Establishing this passive gain often requires the assistance of a divorce financial expert or accountant.

Retirement assets with ascertainable balances, such as 401(k) plans, IRAs, and other defined contribution accounts, are often netted together and subjected to one percentage division. By way of illustration, if a husband has $150,000 in his 401(k) and a wife has $50,000 in her 401(k), and the percentage split is 50/50, the husband will owe the wife $50,000 via a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to effectuate the division of retirement funds. The division of such retirement accounts is also subject to market gains and losses.

Pensions, which often do not have ascertainable present values because they are based in part on future events such as future compensation and years of service, are divided pursuant to a coverture fraction referred to as the Cooper Formula with a 50% multiplier. The Cooper Formula takes the number of years worked toward the pension during the marriage as the numerator and uses the total number of years worked toward the pension as the denominator. That fraction is then subjected to a 50% multiplier, which is the award given to the non-employee spouse. For example:

10 years worked during the marriage x 50% = award to non-employee spouse
20 years total worked

Thus, in the illustration above, if the total pension benefit upon reaching pay status was $4,000 per month, the non-employee spouse would receive $1,000 per month, with the employee spouse retaining $3,000.

To learn more about this topic or for personalized guidance, contact attorney Patrick Boyer, who focuses on family law matters including divorce, equitable distribution, and retirement asset division. Patrick provides clients with strategic advice and compassionate support during challenging transitions. Call 302-654-4454 or visit macelree.com/contact-us.

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3 Dos and 3 Don’ts of Divorce

July 18, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

Do keep good financial records

In a divorce case, parties are typically required to complete a financial disclosure form listing all income, assets, debts, and expenses. Additionally, parties often must provide financial records spanning several years before the divorce. Maintaining organized financial documentation and producing it on time will help you reduce legal fees, enable you and your divorce attorney to better negotiate a divorce settlement, and, if necessary, be better prepared for divorce court or trial proceedings.

Do communicate clearly, concisely, and respectfully with your ex

Your written communication will be scrutinized in child custody cases. Important matters related to co-parenting, such as child exchanges, activities, and school events, need to be discussed and confirmed. Communicating clearly, concisely, and respectfully will help resolve custody disputes, avoid unnecessary arguments, and present yourself favorably to Family Court judges.

Do take care of yourself

Divorce and separation are stressful processes. Don’t make it harder by neglecting your physical, emotional, and mental health. Your well-being can be considered in any contested custody case. Make sure to prioritize self-care, therapy if needed, and maintaining a healthy routine.

Don’t sign anything without seeking legal counsel

Once signed, agreements are legally enforceable—whether they are fair or unfavorable. Always consult a family law attorney to understand your legal rights before signing any documents related to child custody, alimony, property division, or financial settlements.

Don’t move out of the family home without considering the consequences

Moving out can result in paying expenses for two households and may impact your standing in custody disputes. Speak with your attorney before making any major decisions about property or living arrangements.

Don’t engage in heated arguments with your ex

Confrontations can lead to your ex filing a Protection from Abuse (PFA) petition, which may result in serious consequences such as removal from your home, temporary custody being granted to your ex, or court-ordered child support and spousal support (alimony).

Author Patrick J. Boyer concentrates his practice on family law. He advocates in various areas including, but not limited to, divorce, property division, alimony, child custody and visitation, child support, and domestic violence. In addition, Patrick assists his clients with issues involving guardianship and third-party visitation. He is licensed in Delaware and Pennsylvania and works out of the firm’s Centreville, Delaware office.

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How to Protect Your Assets During Divorce

July 10, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

In divorce cases, it is difficult to protect assets. Property acquired during the marriage, regardless of title, is generally subject to equitable distribution in divorce cases. However, spouses are not powerless in protecting their marital and non-marital assets.

First, spouses can sign a pre-nuptial agreement (also known as a prenuptial contract or premarital agreement) prior to marriage. Through a pre-nuptial agreement, a spouse by contract can opt out of the default divorce laws, including those regarding the classification of marital property, spousal support, and/or alimony. A pre-nuptial agreement can also waive an elective share, which is a state-mandated award of property to the surviving spouse from the decedent spouse’s estate. These agreements are especially important for high net worth individuals or those entering a second marriage.

Second, if an asset was acquired through a non-marital source such as a gift, inheritance, or exchange of non-marital property, a spouse seeking to protect those assets should keep them separate from jointly titled assets and other marital assets. This is because commingling an otherwise non-marital asset with marital assets will cause the non-marital asset to be reclassified as marital and thereby subject to division during divorce proceedings.

Third is to document the origin and source of the assets. Parties in divorce cases are often required to document their financial accounts, real estate holdings, business interests, and debts. Poor documentation can lead a Court to draw adverse inferences, and the burden of proving that an asset is non-marital typically falls on the party who holds the asset. Proper documentation is critical in family law litigation, especially in complex divorce and asset division cases.

At MacElree Harvey, we have helped countless spouses and spouses-to-be protect their assets before, during, and after divorce. If you have questions about how we can help you with asset protection, estate planning, or family law matters, please contact us.

Contact Patrick J. Boyer
Family Law Attorney | MacElree Harvey
Direct: 302‑504‑7294

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Can You Get Divorced If Your Spouse Refuses to Sign?

June 20, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

It is possible to resolve almost any issue that arises during a divorce through an agreement between spouses. However, if couples were able to cooperate easily, they likely wouldn’t be seeking a divorce in the first place. While a spouse’s refusal to cooperate or refusal to sign divorce papers can delay the process, it cannot stop a divorce from proceeding in Delaware Family Court.

What Happens If Your Spouse Won’t Sign the Divorce Papers?

The first obstacle in an uncontested divorce becomes a contested divorce when one spouse refuses to sign. The process starts with serving the Petition for Divorce. If the other spouse does not voluntarily accept service, a process server will attempt to personally deliver the Petition. If those efforts fail, service by publication—usually on the Delaware Family Court’s website—is an option to move the case forward.

Can the Divorce Proceed Without Their Consent?

Yes. Once proper service is completed, the divorce case may proceed, and a Decree of Divorce can be granted even over a spouse’s objections. Under Delaware divorce law, spouses must be separated for six months and the marriage must be considered an irretrievable breakdown. Separation can occur even if both parties live in the same household—as long as they occupy separate bedrooms and no longer maintain a sexual relationship.

What If Your Spouse Ignores the Divorce Process?

After the Decree of Divorce is entered, the court will address any outstanding issues, including property division, alimony, and other economic relief, regardless of one party’s refusal to participate. If a spouse continues to be non-cooperative, the Family Court may impose legal consequences, including:

  • Sanctions
  • Awards of attorney’s fees
  • Adverse inferences
  • Default judgments

Bottom Line: You Can Still Get Divorced

In short, ignoring a divorce petition does not prevent the divorce from happening. If your spouse refuses to sign or participate, you still have legal options to move forward with the help of an experienced divorce attorney in Delaware.

Contact Patrick J. Boyer
Family Law Attorney | MacElree Harvey
Direct: 302‑504‑7294

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When Can You Modify a Custody Order?

June 12, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

A parent’s ability to modify a custody order in Delaware depends upon the nature of the modification request, whether the prior custody order was entered by a Judge after a hearing on the merits, and the length of time that has passed between the entry of the prior order and the modification request.

Delaware distinguishes between “custody” and “visitation” under its family law statutes. Legal custody refers to the ability to make important decisions on the child’s behalf, while residency refers to where the child primarily lives. If the child lives primarily with one parent, that parent has primary residential custody. If the parenting time is equally or nearly equally shared, it is referred to as shared residency. The contact a non-custodial parent has with the child—including holidays, exchange times, and vacations—is considered visitation.

Requests to modify visitation in Delaware are always evaluated under the best interests of the child standard, as set forth in 13 Del. C. § 722. A custody order by agreement of the parents may also be modified using the same best interests standard. However, it’s important to note that even when this standard applies, parental agreements carry legal weight. Some Family Court Judges will not consider events that occurred prior to the original agreement, and any request for a modification may raise the question of why the existing parenting agreement no longer works.

If a Judge entered a custody order after a full hearing, a parent may not seek to modify the custody provisions of that order for two years, unless they can prove that continuing the current arrangement would jeopardize the child’s physical health or significantly impair the child’s emotional development. This is a high legal standard that is difficult to meet. After the two-year mark, the threshold for modification is lower and again centers around the child’s best interests.

Author Patrick J. Boyer concentrates his practice on family law. He advocates in various areas including, but not limited to, divorce, property division, alimony, child custody and visitation, child support, and domestic violence. In addition, Patrick assists his clients with issues involving guardianship and third-party visitation. He is licensed in Delaware and Pennsylvania and works out of the firm’s Centreville, Delaware office.

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Dealing with Domestic Violence in Family Law

May 28, 2025 by MacElree Harvey, Ltd. Leave a Comment

Domestic violence issues arise frequently in Delaware family law. A victim of domestic violence should know that they can seek an immediate Protection from Abuse (PFA) Order to safeguard themselves and their children. In an emergency, a victim can and should request an order barring the abuser from having any contact with them. Emergency PFA Orders in Delaware can grant temporary possession of the home and custody, among other forms of relief. These orders typically remain in place until a final hearing on the merits.

After filing for a PFA in Delaware, a domestic violence victim should work closely with their Delaware family law attorney to gather evidence. This may include subpoenaing police officers or medical providers. Common forms of evidence include text messages, video or audio recordings, and photographs.

Before the final hearing, the victim may consider negotiating a consent PFA Order with the other party. While a consent order does not include a legal finding of wrongdoing, it carries the same legal weight as one issued after a full hearing. Consent orders can give the victim greater control over key matters such as temporary possession of the family home, custody of children, and financial support.

Importantly, a Delaware PFA Order prohibits the person subject to the order from owning or possessing firearms while it is in effect. Violating a PFA Order is a criminal offense and can lead to serious legal consequences.

If you have questions about domestic violence legal protection in Delaware, contact Patrick J. Boyer, Delaware family law attorney. Patrick represents clients in a range of matters including domestic violence cases, divorce in Delaware, property division, alimony, child custody and visitation, and child support. He also advises clients on guardianship and third-party visitation. Patrick practices out of the firm’s Centreville, Delaware office.

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